I have
five girls. The oldest, Raylene, was born January 5 1999, Tiffany born June 5
2000, then came the triplets Scarlett, Victoria, and Jannell born January 9
2003. Yes they are a handful.
When I found
out that I was expecting again it turned out to be the day my grandfather
passed away. I took a home test. About a
week later I got the test done from the doctors to confirm it. I wanted one more child. I really wanted a boy. I lost my father when I was seven and my
brother when I was 17. So it only made
sense that I wanted one more and hopefully a boy. That didn't work out like that as you can
see. All I can say is God works in
mysterious ways. There is always a
reason for everything.
So the
doctor sent me for an ultra sound at 8 weeks.
I found out that I was expecting twins because there were two
sacks. I thought cool. I always wanted twins. My grandmother lost a set of twins and my
husband’s grandmother is a twin. So I
thought that it was extra cool. They
made me another ultrasound for I think I was 12 weeks along. When they were checking the heart beats, the
nurse said “the first one is… and then the second one is…” and then all of a
sudden she said,” the third heart rate is....”
My face hit the floor and so did my mothers and my mom said the
third?? We were in such shock that when
I got home I cried. My grandmother was
watching my other two girls. All I kept
thinking is where are we going to put them and how are we going to afford
them. What am I going to do? My mom's job just got phased out thanks to
computers. I live with her in a 3 plus 1
bedroom house but the one room is so small that a single bed doesn't even fit
in there. I got two cribs in there and a
dresser and that's all that fits.
I saw the
specialist in the high risk pregnancies in
The
doctors wanted me to go to Calgary and have the babies and the Calgary doctor
said that as long as I made it passed my 26 or 28 week I should be fine to have
them here in Medicine Hat. The doctor
that I saw in Calgary knew my doctor and had faith in him. That helped because I wanted to have here
because all my family and support was here.
I needed my family.
Every
time I turned around there was another appointment or test. I was always told to get as much bed rest as
I could with the other two children that wasn't easy. I was not allowed to get a lot of exercise
since it might bring on early labor. So
I ended up getting gestational diabetes.
I was only put on a diet nothing else.
I only put on 34 lbs total. All I
kept hearing from the doctors was get through to this week then get through to
this week your doing great babies are doing fine. I felt like the same thing every time I went
in. Except the babies were getting
bigger. I knew the one that had her own
sack was a girl but the other two no way would they ever let me know. I didn't know until they were born.
Everything
was going good, babies were doing fine. I
felt huge like a beached whale. The
holidays were coming fast and I did my Christmas shopping early and got them
wrapped all before Halloween. I was as
ready as I could be for Christmas and the doctors told me to make through and
then it was make through the New Year.
Then it was make it through Raylene's 4th birthday. Which I did all that and we had a small party
for her. By January 8 they put me in the
hospital I was 3-4 cm dilated. Which
scared my doctor because of my last child I went to the doctors appointment and
ended up at the hospital and had her in a few hours my labor went fast and got
fast with each child. Not to mention I
never know when I'm in labor because I have a very high pain tolerance. Baby A was also breech and they couldn't get
a measurement on her at all anymore so they were a little worried. I was scheduled for my c-section the next
morning. I don't know who was more
scared me, my mom or my husband.
My mom
came in the labor room with me not my husband.
So it's
The News
wanted to talk to me because I was the first in 20 years to have triplets born
here in Medicine Hat so I did and interview with them once baby C came
back. She was in Calgary for five
days. They all seem to be doing alright
so I got to go home a week after they were born which was a Friday. Baby A and baby B failed there car seat test
so they had to stay in until they passed.
It gave me a couple of days to spend with my other two girls before I
brought them all home. On Monday Baby A-
Scarlett and Baby B- Victoria could come home.
Baby C - Jannell had to stay a little longer. She came home on Thursday. So I had all my girls home on when they were
two weeks old. I had my mom and my
grandmother and that was it. I don't
think I could have done it with out them.
When the
girls got bigger I used cloth diapers and I found it to be fine. My husband works all hours because he works
in the oil patch so he didn't help much at all.
Everyone told me that preemies were slow and small all the time. Not my girls.
They were slower than the other two.
These ones crawl at 9 months were my other two were walking at 9 - 91/2
months. Jannell was the first to pull
her self up at 11 1/2 months and walked at 12 1/2 months. Scarlett and Victoria walked at 13 months
old. They wanted to try and keep up to
there two other sisters.
Now the
girls are all changed and Jannell that was my biggest is now my smallest. They are all around 30 lbs or over at there 3
year check up. There off the charts for
there height and there weight. The
doctor's have no concerns for them. I'm
happy to hear that. My husband found it
to be way too much for him because he left me and the girls in June 2005 just
after Tiffany turned 5. The day I was
coming home from my operation which I was laid up for 6 weeks with. He didn't want the triplets and he made sure that
everyone knew that just because they are all girls. Thank God I have my mom.